Monday, January 28, 2008


The time left on the scoreboard is 5.5 seconds, score 22-20 our favor, the basketball is in the opponents hands! Forward they go to the hoop, up, up & away the ball goes-MISSED- Hooray, yells, screams, & shouts of joy for the winners. This is the first win they have had all basketball season. Everyone is agreed winning is such fun & exciting. Let me catch my breath! What a great feeling for me how must these 8-9 year olds feel. They only have a few games left for the season. They have been taught to loose humbly. Plus they have grown & learned so much of basketball this season. They really look so improved. Now, can they win with humility also!

This is not fictional this is my 8 year old grandsons game on Saturday. They have truly known the agony of defeat, winning is glorious for them. For most of them it is their first year of playing basketball, but they have gelled and grown so much on & off the basketball field. From listening to others they eat, drink and sleep basketball as my grandson does.

At one time I heard a parent say,"why are our kids so nice on the playing field?" Is this a bad thing one questions? They have toughened up a bit, but still play fairly! We do have so much fun at the games. All the parents have been so supportive for the kids.
They have learned life lessons on that court. To work as a team, to listen carefully to each other and authority, to practise to make oneself better, to share and to loose gracefully.
Now lets see how the rest of the season goes.

The moment of victory is much too short to live for that and nothing else.
Martina Navratilova (1956 - )


Virginia Gal said...

yes that is an interesting question posed by the parent, should we not want to encourage our children to be nice on the field, but also to play well.

I like the quote, its apprepo.

Molly Malone said...

At one time I heard a parent say,"why are our kids so nice on the playing field?"
... i hope the parent was marvelling at the good manners of the kids and not wishing they were meaner. if is the latter, keep an eye on that parent. don't want him/her to be one of those nutjob parents that go psycho from the stands!
CONGRATS to your kiddo, btw! this reminded me of when my little brother used to play peewee basketball. (AH, the 80s!)